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Wouldn’t it be nice if………….
Posted by: | CommentsIn Process #12 of “Ask and It is Given”, Abraham talks through Esther Hicks of a way to turn something around to a more positive feeling, if you are leaning towards the negative, and feeling some resistance.
He says “When you say, ‘I want this thing to happen that hasn’t happened yet,’ you are not only activating the vibration of your desire, you are also activating a vibration of the absence of your desire – so nothing changes for you. And often, even when you do not speak the second part of the sentence and you say only, ‘I want this to happen,’ there is an unspoken vibration within you that continues to hold you in a state of not allowing our desire.”
He then talks about playing around with things that seem a bit out our reach by coming up with “Wouldn’t it be nice if…………….” sentences. I LOVE this, and find it really helpful, if I am feeling stuck in some way. It has an almost instant affect of lighten up my vibration around things, and opening up a much greater feeling of possibility.
I was inspired to write this post today, because I’m just back from driving my lovely niece to her first Junior Certificate Exam. There are two weeks of exams for 16 and 18 years olds in Ireland now, and people can get very stressed! My niece doesn’t really enjoy school and that kind of study much, and wasn’t feeling great about going into the exams – she’s much rather be surfing!! So in the car on the way in we played WOULDN’T IT BE NICE IF………….
We came up with some great ones and were laughing having a great time on the journey, so of course, she felt much better going into the exam.
Here are some of the ones we came up with:
Wouldn’t it be nice if:
- the weather was dull on the exam days and sunny at the weekends
- if I enjoyed my exams a bit (my suggestion)
- if I enjoyed them a lot!!! (her suggestion)
- if the questions were just the ones I wanted
- I could easily remember everything I know
- if the time went by really quickly
- if I did better than I thought I could
- if my revision went really well this afternoon, and I could surf for an hour tonight
- If every time I felt stuck on a question, I asked God for help and remembered the answer
and more.
Abraham gives suggestions like
“Would it be nice if I stumbled across something that really worked for me.”
“Would it be nice if I looked like I did in this picture.”
“Wouldn’t it be nice if I discovered this to be much easier than its been before.”
Play around with it and see how you get on, and if you can feel the difference it makes to your vibrational level. Let us know some of your great – “Wouldn’t it be nice ifs…….”
What’s Your Vision for the World?
Posted by: | CommentsI created a new blog after I watched Michael Moore’s movie about Capitalism. For many years I was active in political campaigns, and was on protests and working hard to change the world, to a fairer, more just world in which all people were honoured and valued. I found myself questioning a lot of things in these movements and in politics. All the anger and the antagonism, and the lack of compassion with others stopped became less appealing, and I looked to develop my spiritual life and left politics.
The words of Thich Naht Hahn made a big impact on me at the time – something like “there will be peace when the peace movement learns to speak with words of peace.” and Ghandhi’s ” be the change you want to see in the world.”
For nearly 20 years, I’ve done nothing “political”, as I developed my spiritual aspect. I always had a feeling that at some point things will come together in me, the spiritual and the desire for social change and to do my part to create a more peaceful, caring world.
For several years now, I have been studying and understanding more and more of the Law of Attraction – or Deliberate Creation. When I was watching Micheal Moore’s movie, I felt the desire to do something, but I didn’t want that to involve anger and blame. I had the idea to create this site, so that people can share their vision for the future – a place where rockets of desire can be launched for how we want to create the world of the future.
I’m not planning to write that much. Just to write thoughts whenever they come. What I’d love is for people to write their comments and share ideas and visions so that we can co-create a world where all people and beings are loved, cherished and valued. Share words and pictures, and music that is inspirational, and will be a place to come to when we want to connect with others who share our vision.
This is my start:
“I see the world as wonderful – truly wonderful. I love the variety, the strength, the magnificence. I see such beauty and such strength of spirit. I see such love and compassion, as people help and support each other. There is so much abundance and love everywhere, such harmony and balance. I love the way people are taking responsibility for their own thoughts and are so connected to spirit and the universe. I embrace the contrasts which give me such opportunity for growth, such wealth of experience and allow me to launch new rockets of desire.”
I’d love it if you wanted to write something – you can write a comment – at http://www.myvisionfortheworld.com , or if you want to contribute and write posts, email me and I’ll set you up as a contributor on the site. I’d love that.
It’s A New Day – and I’m Feeling Good.
Posted by: | CommentsI just wanted to give some feedback about how I got on yesterday after my “out of sorts” start to the day. Well…….as things tend to, it turned out to be a great day!
I spent the first part tuning into my feelings and my body, and just let the energy do what it wanted and just “allowed” it to be whatever it was. I realised that one of the things I was feeling was a bit lonely and isolated, because I’d been lying low for a few days with a cold. It felt good to know that was a trigger to my feelings.
Next, I spent a great hour on self care – listening to a great podcast from one of the Communion of Light talks at Good Vibe U (my favourite place online to hang out when I want inspiration). So, as I body-brushed and plumed and groomed myself, giving great vibes to myself, I listened to a great conversation about Contrasts. Contrasts are when we come up against something that takes us away from our Source, and the good feelings we want to have. My contrast yesterday was a very minor one, sometimes they are much more major – sickness, loss, major disruption. What contrasts do is to launch “rockets of desire” – they help you to get clearer on what you DO WANT, by showing you clearly WHAT YOU DO NOT WANT. So, in the contrast, you can find out how to make your life better – by creating the vision of what you do want, and putting the majority of your focus there, you will get to where you want to go. Everything is waiting for you – your future in vibrational form – your part is to line up vibrationally to receive it. To do that, you have to take your focus away from what is happening now – that is the result of previous vibrational output. Line up with the future you – feel it as it if it is happening now, no matter how far away it seems (it’s much closer than you think) – see and feel yourself, being, doing, having whatever it is you want. Everything that was ever created or invented started in the imagination.
If you want things to be different – you have to feel different.
Posted by: | CommentsI’m feeling irritated and out of sorts today!!! And I’m really annoyed and frustrated that I’m feeling like this AGAIN! I haven’t for a good while, and thought I’d left it behind me. I’ve been feeling great, and really in my good feeling place for weeks now, and I LOVE it there! So, I’m surprised to find myself here over something trivial – my partner forgetting to pick up the dog food! Writing it down is great – it brought a smile to my face. How ridiculous to let something so small bring me to an irritated place, when everything else is SO good.
So, I am somewhere, I don’t want to be. I know where I want to be – and I’m going to have fun getting there! It’s a great time for me to practice getting back to the Vortex, where all is well, and my good feelings are waiting for me.
I could tell when I woke up, feeling some tension and tightness that I was still carrying something. SO I went straight to my computer and to the Good Vibrations University community, where I know I will always find inspiration and support. Luckily today was also Jeannette’s ezine day, so there was an abundance of inspiring things to read. Loads of suggestions and ideas and guidance, as to how to get back to that good feeling place. There’s a link in the menu box if you want to check it out – I’d highly recommend it as a place to hang out, if you want inspiration and support.
Nicole, had posted this clip to an Abraham video, talking about parenting, but also relationships in general. It’s been a huge help to me, to set me on the path to feeling how I want to feel, whatever is going on around me.
SO here’s what I’m going to do:
Firstly, I’m going to ask Spirit for guidance and support in letting go of my resistance, and allowing all the good to come to me.
Then, I am giving myself time and permission to really feel what I feel. To be as irritated and as upset as I want to be – to let all the other related things come into my awareness.(it’s obviously about much more than some dog food!)
Next I’m going to spend some time with my body – feeling where the tension is, and letting my body release and do what it wants to with the energy that I am resisting.
Then I’m going to focus on all that I love in my partner, all that is great in my life, all that I am grateful for.
Then I am going to script and journal and FEEL how things are in the future for me, when all is just as I want it to be.
It will take as long as it takes. I’ll let you know how I get on!
What ways do you have to bring yourself back to the Vortex of feeling great when you have been pulled out in some way?
Homeward bound…..
Posted by: | CommentsI feel that I am homeward bound on an inner and an outer level. This has been such a great few days for me, guiding myself back to my source energy in an intensive time.
I heard late last night – in the middle of the night actually, that we have confirmed flights home tonight!! This is great news – as from the chaos at the airport yesterday, and the feedback we were getting, it looked unlikley. Or as I was saying ” Difficile, mais pas impossible.” (which my or may not be correct French, as I think I often string words and sentences together in a strange way – usually well enough for people to understand, but quirky enough to make them smile!!!).
It’s been really interesting to be involved in the volcano-induced, flight delays (or I suppose they are human induced in response to the volcano doing it’s natural thing, and being a volcano!). The people I travelled with have had very different reactions – some very anxious, angry, blaming, upset etc. Initially I thought I was keeping in my own space about it, by keeping away and doing my own thing. But that didn’t feel good – it was actually closing down my connection to source and cutting me off and isolating me.
Luckily I had bought, Ask and It is Given, Excuse Me Your Life is Waiting and an ipod stuffed full of great calls from Good Vibe U to listen to. It was so great to have so much support to keep my vibrations high. I was in such a beautiful place it was easy in some ways – but there were people, who couldn’t see the beauty of the place and spent the whole extra days there (which I felt as a real gift) – away from when we were in anxiety and anger. When I realised that it wasn’t working for me to isolate myself from it, I knew that the best thing I could do, was to feel as good as I could and to keep my vibration zinging as much as I could.
I used one of Lynn Grabhom’s ideas in Excuse Me Your Life is Waiting – and chose a flip phrase of self appreciation each day. So if I felt or heard myself going into any old patterns of judgement, blame, isolation etc I had a phrase handy to bring an inner smile back to me. Lynn suggests using something you like about yourself – this served a great double purpose for me – as the new body shape I am manifesting hasn’t fully arrived yet, so I had some challenges at first with being on the beach all day!!! This helped so much. I choose things like ” I love my hair” ” I love my eyes”. Everytime I said my phrase I felt that inner smile come, and my vibration rise.
It felt SO much better. I was able to be helpful and supportive to my companions in their reality of fear and anxiety, without being drawn into it. I helped in practical ways and by keeping true to myself. I was called Pollyanna, a few times!!!!!! – which I considered a great compliment. It felt good. I didn’t do any phoning or complaining to the authorities ( well, hardly any…..). I held a picture in my mind and felt the feelings of us all getting on the plane, and things working out easily and smoothly, and of us arriving home in the best possible way.
It was a great practice to me, and all the time, I can feel that sense of being home, that I always feel when I sit to meditate. A homecoming to the real me, to my source.
I love this song – on both the inner and outer level. At times, in my life, I’ve felt that I was constantly on the road even when I in my physical home. I’ve felt I was performing. Thank God, I rarely feel those things now, and can feel the discomfort of them much more quickly, and can find a way back to my real “home” much more easily.
What do you do to get that feeling of “home” in yourself? I’d love it if you’d share your ways – leave a comment so others can learn from you.
A Rampage of Appreciation
Posted by: | CommentsI’m just reading “Ask and It is Given” – the Teachings of Abraham by Esther and Jerry Hicks. I can’t believe that I haven’t read it before!! – I’ve given it to people as a present, I’ve read articles and listened to talks etc, – but somehow I’d never read it. It really is true that everything happens at the right time, and now must be the optimal time for me to read it in its entirety. I am loving it and getting so much from it. It’s so in tune with everything I know to be true for me instinctively and for others that I coach. I’m really happy that I came to a lot of the learnings myself, and now can add to them by this reading and new learning.
The teachings are all about raising your vibrational level – so that you are in alignment with what it is you are asking to receive. This is where a lot of us can get frustrated and feel that the Law of Attraction is not working. We ask – the Universe is doing it’s part to align everything so that we can receive – but we haven’t done the 3rd step - of bringing our aligning our vibration with that which we wish to receive. We are still focussing on the “lack” and what we don’t have, even when we think we are aligning ourselves to receive.
I have often talked and written about how Gratitude can raise your vibrational level – and it definitely does. I love the way that Abraham talks about it in the Chapter on “A Rampage of Appreciation” . He recommends using this when you are feeling relatively good about something and are in one of the higher frequencies already. It can help wherever you are, if you can find anything to appreciate or be grateful for, but it is hard to do that if you are in the depths of despair.
One of the biggest lessons I ever had about my thoughts, and their power and my particular though patterns was at a week long meditation retreat I was on about 10 years ago. I was meditating (or rather sitting in anguish as my mind raced wildly!! – for a lot of the time) - for about 5-6 hours a day, in a beautiful place. After a couple of days, I was sitting in the dining area by myself, as I thought, idly looking around – and then I became aware of my thoughts!!!! They were SO judgemental – every person who walked in I had some comment to make about – some I considered positive, but a lot were negative – things like:
I don’t like that coat
I wouldn’t think someone dressed like that would come to a meditation retreat
They look a bit stuck up
She looks nice
Please don’t sit next to me – I don’t want to talk to you
and on, and on, and on……………… it was never ending! I had to laugh in the end, because it was so obvious.
Ever since then I have tried to consciously bring my thoughts to a state of appreciation and gratitude more regularly, so that those thoughts become much more familiar to me, and become my default place to go to.
In ” Ask and It is Given” I’ve just been reading about the Rampage of Appreciation – and I love the way that it is talked about there. To use any moment you have – like standing in line for something, or being in traffic and gently allowing your thoughts to focus on what they appreciate:
Isn’t it great to be able to get so many things in one place
I’m so happy I have the money to pay for this
The checkout person looks really happy today
What a lovely child with their mother over there
This is much quicker than I thought it would be
etc, etc – anything that you can appreciate about the situation at all.
You can do it for a regular amount of time everyday, or on your spare moments.
I am committing to doing it regularly with my house - we are needing to do some renovations, for for various reasons have been delayed. I have become more and more aware that my thinking is affecting this, as my frustration can run high at times. I know when I am in a state of appreciation and gratitude, things move more smoothly, so I’m committing to becoming more conscious of appreciating the many wonderful things there are to appreciate in my home.
What are of your life could do with some more appreciation? Have fun, finding ways to appreciate what their is to appreciate about it – it’s important to be genuine, and really appreciate the things you say you do, you can’t fake appreciation – but you change shift your focus to what you appreciate.
